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True Friends in Life

admin — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 08:28:30 +0000

Recently, my whole life has been totally massed up. No job meant no income, and the money I earned before had been used up. I even had no money to pay the rent of next three months(the rent of our flat paid every 3 month). For the poorest time only 10 left in my pocket which was the reminding of the 100 which I borrowed from one of my friends. I was nearly collapsed then, and I wanted to escape back to my hometown. Fortunately, I have such good friends who gave me some good advices and helped me to find a job that can earn some money.
Now I am back on the journey of my life toward dream. I am passionate and positive again, thanks to them. They are my true friends, not because they borrowed me money when I ran out of it, but they did not give me up when I lose heart. The advice they gave me and the courage words they spoke to me will be always on my mind. I understand what a true friend is and what a treasure it is to owning true friends in your life. I will cherish this friendship for ever, and always ready to make more true friends with my heart in. Hope you’ve got some true friends in you life too. Best wishes.

The Bystanders

admin — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 07:38:33 +0000

Today I want to talk about a group of people who are called bystanders. You must be not unfamiliar with them, you can usually see such a group in the spot of a traffic accident, a quarrel, or something like these. They often show up driven by the curiosity. They are there talking about what happened, how could this happen, what is the situation now, and what will happen later. Sometimes they know the solution to the problem, they will seap it up, but no actions. To make it clearer, let me set an example for you. An accident happened. A man who is walking across the street is hit by a car. He lied on the road, blood all body and face, half breathing. He is still alive. But the driver slipped away in fear of being put into prison. Several people were attracted here, and they stand crowding the man. Then one asked:” what happened?”
“He was hit by a car?” another replied.
“How is he?” asked a third man.
“still alive, but he will die if not transfered to hospital.” But no one moved. They did not leave either, still standing there talking. Soon the man died of losing too much blood.
In such a case we can not capture any one of these by standers. They will not be punished according to the law. But do not you think these men are wrong? They should be blamed by the morality which the society has advocated for a long history till now. Don’t these people know the morality? have they forgotten it? Our government has spent a lot of timeand money in developing socialist culture and ethics, how could they have no idea of morality？ Then what is going on?

Family

admin — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 08:17:01 +0000

I have a big family of five members here, mom, dad, elder sister, younger sister and I. I do not understand what a family is until my younger sister got married a week ago. Of course my elder sister got married too and I have a cute nephew of 4 years old. I have been outside far away from home for about 1 year. Coldness and disappointment I have gone through during the year is extremely miseray memeries of my life. Several calls to tell my parents I was OK outside were all connections with my family. After one year’s difficult working experience I was home again. I still remembered how glad I was when I saw my mom smiling to me with tears in her idea. I could almost not help crying. Father was still serious but I could see the eagerness and joy from his eyes. Sister was exited to ask me a lot of questions all the time which I could hardly to open my mouth to disturb. That was the place I grew up, and will be open for me no matter how far I have gone. That was the people lived with me for 20 years and loved me from the very beginning we were together. That was my family taht never failed to give me warmness, happiness and safety. Now i am outside again, wording hard for my dream. I will never be upset and hesitated again. I am confident now because I know my whole family will love and support me for ever.