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Learn to Let It Go

admin — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 03:25:36 +0000

Dring the long journey, there is always something that you can not control, then you need to learn to let it go. To let it go when your lover suffers from the love between you, to let it go when opportunity you have been long for does not suite you any more, to let it go when the one we love so much passed away for another world. If you try to seize the things beyond your abilities to control, you will go into a trap set by yourself. Life is always rolling on, and will not stop or even turn back for any one of us. So learn to give up, learn to let it go, according to the rule of nature. Come out of the deadlock, you are the only one who can set you free, you can still remember in the future journey, never let the memories become the whole of your life. Your life must be more than that. Consider it as a must and accept it. You can get a broad world, if you can step back one single pace.

Keep a Good Mood

admin — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 12:15:15 +0000

People say that we are the gifts of god. God creat us in great mercy. God does not give us the right of choosing who we are, but he gives the ablities of choosing what kind of person you can be and what mood you can hold. Life is not an easy journey. There are always different kinds of miserious things and happy things happen. Someone we loved went away on their weat journey, and we feel sorry because we can not see him or her smiling to us any more. But we can be grateful because he gets out of the miserable pains he or she will go through. Life is always like this, things happen whether you would like or not, the thing we can do is to keep a positive attitude and a good mood in mind. Things do not change no matter how painful or regretful we feel. so why not see the good side. When my gradema left, my heart is broken. She maybe the one who loved me best as long as I can remember things. But she had gone no matter how eager I am to hope that she can come back. so I said to myself:”It is OK, she went to the heaven where there is no pain any more, and she will live a happy life there. “Then I feel better, Life is going on, I must continue the miserable journey. But I will never give up, I will face it all in a good mood.

Back to My University

admin — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 05:56:58 +0000

I came back to the university where I spent four years of my college life. The gurad of the north gate is still the guy we had arguments with on one night we were back drunked. I hated him for a while and never looked at his direction each time I passed by. But today I smiled to him, and he smiled back. But obviously he did not remember me at all. The smile was just a habit as he had done to anyone else during the past years.
“It doesn’t matter,” I said to myself “there must be some one who remembers me. After all, I lived here for 4 years.” And I stroke on the mainroad.
The road was still the same one I had walked thousands of times but the people passing by were all strangers to me. Teaching Buildings did not change either. The classroom I used to have so many interesting lessons, do my homeworks, revive the lessons is perfectly as it was. But I can not call any names of the people who was studying there. What good memories I had here, though it did not belong to me any more.
Life is strange. The things we used to get used to and pay little attention to can become such good memories that you can enjoy for the rest of your lives. We were in such a hurry heading for our dreams that we took little ntice of them. Whether I have missed something important which was neglected by me. I searched in my mind but nothing got. Then I realized we could not know what is important to us until one day we realized we had lost it for ever. The only thing left is memory the thing we can imagine any time but never touch it. That is the rule of nature which we can not control. But what can we do then? Then I remembered the old saying :”yesterday is history, tomorrow is mistery, but today is a gift, that is why it is called present. Seize present is all that we can do, I said to myself.

Family

admin — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 08:17:01 +0000

I have a big family of five members here, mom, dad, elder sister, younger sister and I. I do not understand what a family is until my younger sister got married a week ago. Of course my elder sister got married too and I have a cute nephew of 4 years old. I have been outside far away from home for about 1 year. Coldness and disappointment I have gone through during the year is extremely miseray memeries of my life. Several calls to tell my parents I was OK outside were all connections with my family. After one year’s difficult working experience I was home again. I still remembered how glad I was when I saw my mom smiling to me with tears in her idea. I could almost not help crying. Father was still serious but I could see the eagerness and joy from his eyes. Sister was exited to ask me a lot of questions all the time which I could hardly to open my mouth to disturb. That was the place I grew up, and will be open for me no matter how far I have gone. That was the people lived with me for 20 years and loved me from the very beginning we were together. That was my family taht never failed to give me warmness, happiness and safety. Now i am outside again, wording hard for my dream. I will never be upset and hesitated again. I am confident now because I know my whole family will love and support me for ever.