The Reflections of Life

I found an interesting phenomenon the other day. It is that people usually look down the street but hardly look up the sky. I guessed maybe it took them too much energy to lift up their head because the energy had almost run up because of the hard work of the whole day. Maybe It is because they are in such a hurry that they even had no time to look up. Maybe it is because that they think they seem humble if they look up. Maybe it is because they are thinking. No matter what the reason is, it must be complicated. They pay too much attention to the world at their level or below while they seldom take notice of the world above in my opinion. If you lift up you head, you will see a pure and broad sky where your imagination can fly freely so that your brain can have a peaceful leisure time. I like to lie down on the meadow grass after I was exhausted after a long distance jog in the evening. Then I can see a dark sky with some stars sparkling. It seems that they are just watching you like you watch them. And my mind and body are all free. I feel so relaxed, and all the boring things just slip out of mind. It is really a good time. So next time, when you are angry or disappointed, even lose heart, please lift up your head. You will see the sky is still high and blue, there still broad space for your great mind. Believe me, It will work well, because I tried many times, and seldom failed.

Recently, my whole life has been totally massed up. No job meant no income, and the money I earned before had been used up. I even had no money to pay the rent of next three months(the rent of our flat paid every 3 month). For the poorest time only 10 left in my pocket which was the reminding of the 100 which I borrowed from one of my friends. I was nearly collapsed then, and I wanted to escape back to my hometown. Fortunately, I have such good friends who gave me some good advices and helped me to find a job that can earn some money.
Now I am back on the journey of my life toward dream. I am passionate and positive again, thanks to them. They are my true friends, not because they borrowed me money when I ran out of it, but they did not give me up when I lose heart. The advice they gave me and the courage words they spoke to me will be always on my mind. I understand what a true friend is and what a treasure it is to owning true friends in your life. I will cherish this friendship for ever, and always ready to make more true friends with my heart in. Hope you’ve got some true friends in you life too. Best wishes.

Nowadays, I found a big problem while I was reading. The problem is that it is not easy to focus my concentration. Sometims I began to think about other things while reading, sometimes I became senseless and even did not remember what I read one or two minutes ago. Though I tried many times using different methods, though it is all quiet around me, I just could not help losing my attention. What was going on? How could this happen? I had no idea. But I am afraid that when i am doing my work, or making great effort to fulfill my dream, what if I lose my consentration, and attracted by other things. I think it will possibly happen because there are so many attractions beside the way leading to your dream much more than the quiet enviroment while I read. It is really a big case, do you have some suggestions on this?

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I was scared by a report of a research carried by a professional institute lasting one year on the relationship between the living habits and health. The report said that the health and living age of the people who had a good living habit were obvious better than the ones who lead a confusing life. Good habits they referred to including almost every part of life, such as going to bed early in the evening and getting up with the lark in the morning, regular bath, changing and washing clothes on time, tiding our the room every day, doing exercises every day, even listening to the music and reading, and so on. Meanwhile they list some bad habits which will sharply lead to a short living. Smoking, drinking, laziness, stay up late, as usual, and something new like using computer too long, especially playing too much video games which not only bring too much radiation to your body, causing your bone problems but also do much harm to your mind. To be frank I used to be video games lover, especially online games in which you can know other people without real name, and real information. I played it so hard that I usually forget to have dinners and do not want to sleep at all which make me really weak for a long time. Now I started to sleep early and get up early, even do some exercises in the evening. I know maybe it is a little late, but as the old saying ‘late better than never’. It is time for me to do something good for myself. If you are just in the same situation as I used to, please give the games up. They do no good to you. Believe me it is good to form a good living habit. I will do better in the future. What about you?

Now a new wave of economic crisis is spreading all over the world, leading the increace of job losing rate, and the worries of the ordinary people. More and more people lose their incoming resources, and the markets of all areas are reducing back. It is really a big problem that it may lead to the bankruptcy and even the collapse of economic system, and then the collapse of our society and the civilization of our human-beings. The government leaders all over the world are taking positive attitude towards it. They put up with a lot of new policies to stimulate the consuming all across their inner lands. We, ordinary people as part of the country, now has to take the responsability as a member. Firstly, we need to calm down, do not spread the rumors on the road, to live as we usually do. Secondly, we need to be confident and trust our country leaders. We can overcome the difficult situation as long as we follow the correct direction the leaders point to. Thirdly, think of a way to rescue ourselves, not just counting on the government. In a word we must stand together and pay special attention to the economic crisis, but never in fear of it, because this is the problem of the whole human civilization. You must be brave.

Recently I have got into a trouble with my friends who are my collegues before. The thing is that I lent some money to two of my friends who said they would return the money as soon as possible. Half a year passed, they had not given the money back to me and I did not ask for the money either during this period. But now I need the money badly. I called them and talked about the money thing. They told me that they just sold one house but the money was not available now and they had no other money in hand. I trust them, but my situation did not allow me to wait for a little longer. I called them several times after that telling them to find other ways to get the money. Every time they said OK, but every other time I called they told me to wait another several days. I begun to doubt them, and do not know what to do. Mayde I spoke harder words will work but it will hurt our friendship. I do not know what to do. Can you give me some advice?

Today I want to talk about a group of people who are called bystanders. You must be not unfamiliar with them, you can usually see such a group in the spot of a traffic accident, a quarrel, or something like these. They often show up driven by the curiosity. They are there talking about what happened, how could this happen, what is the situation now, and what will happen later. Sometimes they know the solution to the problem, they will seap it up, but no actions. To make it clearer, let me set an example for you. An accident happened. A man who is walking across the street is hit by a car. He lied on the road, blood all body and face, half breathing. He is still alive. But the driver slipped away in fear of being put into prison. Several people were attracted here, and they stand crowding the man. Then one asked:” what happened?”
“He was hit by a car?” another replied.
“How is he?” asked a third man.
“still alive, but he will die if not transfered to hospital.” But no one moved. They did not leave either, still standing there talking. Soon the man died of losing too much blood.
In such a case we can not capture any one of these by standers. They will not be punished according to the law. But do not you think these men are wrong? They should be blamed by the morality which the society has advocated for a long history till now. Don’t these people know the morality? have they forgotten it? Our government has spent a lot of timeand money in developing socialist culture and ethics, how could they have no idea of morality？ Then what is going on?

I came back to the university where I spent four years of my college life. The gurad of the north gate is still the guy we had arguments with on one night we were back drunked. I hated him for a while and never looked at his direction each time I passed by. But today I smiled to him, and he smiled back. But obviously he did not remember me at all. The smile was just a habit as he had done to anyone else during the past years.
“It doesn’t matter,” I said to myself “there must be some one who remembers me. After all, I lived here for 4 years.” And I stroke on the mainroad.
The road was still the same one I had walked thousands of times but the people passing by were all strangers to me. Teaching Buildings did not change either. The classroom I used to have so many interesting lessons, do my homeworks, revive the lessons is perfectly as it was. But I can not call any names of the people who was studying there. What good memories I had here, though it did not belong to me any more.
Life is strange. The things we used to get used to and pay little attention to can become such good memories that you can enjoy for the rest of your lives. We were in such a hurry heading for our dreams that we took little ntice of them. Whether I have missed something important which was neglected by me. I searched in my mind but nothing got. Then I realized we could not know what is important to us until one day we realized we had lost it for ever. The only thing left is memory the thing we can imagine any time but never touch it. That is the rule of nature which we can not control. But what can we do then? Then I remembered the old saying :”yesterday is history, tomorrow is mistery, but today is a gift, that is why it is called present. Seize present is all that we can do, I said to myself.

This afternoon at 1 o’clock finally I have a rest an after a really busy and tiring morning. I was a little angry at the person who set an ambiguous opportunity which waste my time of rewriting it twice. He or she should have made it clear. I sat down beside the table and saw the book Harry Potter that I borrowed from one of my friends’ two days ago. I picked it up and began to read. It has been 1 hour later when I put the book down and decided to have something to eat. What I want to say is that reading a good book is a miracle thing which can make you forget the unhappy and miserable things. It can help to peace your breath and focus your attention on one thing and let the brain have a leisure time imagining all the funny pictures on your mind. Maybe it can work for the high blood pressers, I guess. To form a good habit of reading will bring you both wisdom and health. What do you think?